I know this lady who feels so trapped in herself. She may look big or mature outside, but she's a 'little girl' inside. She has no identity, confidence, dreams, vision and mission, intuition, independent thought. And she's so dependent on others basically in every aspects-in making decision: to cut hair or not, what model, which saloon to go, even to tell the harirstylist what model she wants or what clothes to buy and to wear and in finance (not even a cent she pays for her own expenses). She will express her emotion to everybody and then she will regret it because she thinks that she's too childish to act like that. She can talk many right things, but she can't do them. She feels that her selfishness conquers her. What she thinks everyday is about herself, not even a bit of her family, her friends, or even her God. She is so shameful of herself. She may have two digits in her age, but her maturity age is 0. Why can't she just be like other girls? Even the younger girls have higher maturity level than she, she thought. What should she do? Blaming herself everyday? Changing to be the mature lady in a day? How she wishs that to happen. Does she want to change and be mature? You bet she does! Reading self-help books? She does it. But she still has no direction to go.
Can you help her?
1 comment:
eh,i tot i posted a comment in ur blog but i x see it one.weird.anyway,do post a latest pic of u.miss u la.n do post comment in my blog 2.tc.GBU
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