
this book explains to me why the elderly act the way they do, why they are so stiff and strict to their children, why they don't show much affection as the westerners do, their perception on money, health, image; some insights on "prohibitions"/pantangan, our parents expect us to follow whatever "they" want us to do without asking what "we" want; and how secretive we, chinese, are on our sexual lives. it indeed is an interesting book to read.
looking forward to read sky burial, where can i find it, hmmm....